We have asked you multiple times for the insurance policy details of the Orchid Street property. As you were told previously, an injury occurred during the repair of your destruction. The home you destroyed, and then profited off of, because of the efforts of OUR family.
Why would you possibly withhold it? Do we really need to address this through the courts? Or did you just stop paying the premium for it like the last 2 times?? Be honest for once in your life.
SIX times over the past year your mother antagonized us at the Toms River courthouse. Making faces in the lobby. Yucking it up with Ian Goldman, the prosecutor. Sitting next to him in the courtroom! Is this a fucking game to you all?
Just casting-off baseless allegations at the prosecutors office.WHEN DO WE stop getting harassed?!? What’s the end game? Let their parasite of a daughter continue to suck our family dry. You really set the hook to make sure we couldn’t shake their “toxic” child off so easy. Better us than them, right? We weren’t at the adoption, but YOUR FAMILY WAS, front and center as always posting pics on the gram. In the end they didn’t even want you in their home.
All about that hashtag life, but when the real life shit went down — poof! They all scurried like rats when the lights are turned on.
Did you parents plan on getting back in our good graces so they can see the child they groomed as a grandson, and then abruptly abandoned without a word, whose heart was broken because your ENTIRE FAMILY decided it was easier to walk away, then step up. Unforgivable.
We’re not Diane. Your mom cant make kissy faces at us on Facebook, and play dumb. All your spiritual bullshit. We see right though ALL of you. Your entire family dynamic is toxic, top to bottom.
STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM OUR FAMILY.
They exploited us, used us, to insulate themselves from the albatross sleeping that was sleeping on their couch. We were useful, until we weren’t –then they disposed of us. We reached out for help, and they disappeared, hid from us, except for Alfonso who stumbled through excuse after excuse until eventually, they silenced him, too. We asked for accountability and you all played the victim. You tried to steal a vulnerable boy’s light, to fill up your darkness, and it worked, for a while.
It’s time to put some goddamn respect on our family’s name. We’ve been in Ocean County for 60 years. Our mother stepped up as Mayor to run Brick when the incumbent was taken away by the feds in handcuffs. People trust us for a reason. You on the other hand. What have you done for your community besides destroy and lie through your teeth? Find any teacher who will say a bad thing about any of us in the Brick School system. It will never fucking happen. No criminal issues. No murky past. We deserved better.
What year did you graduate again? What middle school did you go to again? Was the psychiatrist court ordered or voluntary at that point? We should have been warned about your past.
Your family wants to keep playing games with your TR HS North friends in the courts. Your family’s whole ass is showing — maybe they should try cleaning up their own backyard for a change?
In the end our family was stronger than yours, your secrets were exposed, and now you’re all desperately searching for someone to blame for your failures. We suggest using a mirror, it has all the answers you’ll ever need.
You traumatized our family and your family disappeared, we struggled and suffered while they left us stranded to clean up your mess. You acted like a goddamn animal. We deserved better.
Your collective lack of self-awareness is truly mind-blowing. They referred to you as both an “asshole” and “toxic”, as if you were born that way.
Parenting (or lack of) had NOTHING to do with you developing a severe personality disorder?!? I can only imagine went went down from 1980-88.
Looking for someone else to blame will be a lifetime search, they simultaneously trash talk you behind your back, while posting photos on socials portraying the perfect family. Its all a LIE.
WE. DESERVED. BETTTER.
We’d tell you to find Jesus, but how many churches are you going to go to before you finally GET THE MESSAGE.
Pastor Bryan, Pastor Rodger — who’s next to serve you up a piece of that hyper-grace on a stale wafer.
You talk like Christians, but act like heathens.
We’ll continue to speak the truth, and protect the children, while you worry about appearances and saving face.
They took a vulnerable young man, and groomed him. Used him for clout. Dressed him up in matching outfits, parading him around his school and their church. Championed down syndrome, passed him around to their friends. AND THEN ABANDONED HIM WITHOUT A WORD. Can you begin to imagine the pain you collectively caused him? Your family swallowed him whole and then unceremoniously spit him out. HOW THE FUCK WERE WE SUPPOSED TO NAVIGATE THAT? Cowards.
The height of cruelty.
Fortunately we found brave people in our community who saw through the bullshit and stepped up to help protect us.
John Novak pointed out in minutes what the Toms River HS North lawyers, didn’t in a combined 10 months.
He asked us the relationship between Cindy and your mom, and why she running after the prosecutor with a list of names she’s afraid we’ll talk to, when she’s not involved? The OC prosecutor told us on the phone that your mom’s last pathetic attempt to file charges against us was rejected, now she’s clearly trying to pile on to Cindy’s equally desperate attempt.
The last thing Novak said was “it’s not illegal to be a narcissist”. Noted, John. Noted.
Christin you can’t even take care of yourself, let alone an animal, and your family sits there watching you try and raise 2 children. They know better, but somehow all too happy to watch our family struggle, while you lock down your social media and try and protect a facade built on with meaninglessness hashtags.
It was all a lie.
YOUR family had a key to the house, our family didn’t, but that was clearly by design. All your secrets behind locks. They knew what your were capable of and said nothing. Shameful.
Our mother was locked outside the home, you were caught in the basement with Kristen Doyle, three children upstairs in a an overflowing bathtub water pouring through and destroying ceiling, these children could have DROWN, but your mom didnt want to hear that story. No wonder she stopped coming over.
When their house burned down, and there was no insurance money, your mother told us you were “looking into it”. Is she still looking?!
When you pushed our family out of their own house, and moved-in Kristen Suarez/Doyle, who has a disabled veteran husband and TWO children of her own at home, but preferred spending her time taunting a 74 y/o woman who was waiting with her grandson at his bus stop, in front of the very home he was FORCED from. Fucking VILE!
Christin you DESTROYED the house, it was less than 2 years removed from a complete rebuild. We cleaned up your mess, paid your car insurance, paid your mortgage while you emptied out the checking account. What is wrong with you?
Your “dad” snuck over in the middle of the night to steal a CAT. That was his priority.
You used the dumpster OUR FAMILY paid for and filled it up with Christins garbage. Deadbeats. Tried to use our lawyers too. None of you want to take responsibility or pay for anything. Shameful.
Then you stood outside the home, while WE CLEANED it, John recording US with his phone resting on his belly. His “daughter” barking orders at him with her arms crossed. What the fuck is wrong with John? Who is he afraid of? Oh. I get it. The picture is coming into focus.
Our family spent tens of thousands of dollars fixing the house you destroyed, and your watched you squat and refuse to leave while the children slept on mattresses and couches soaked with urine, letting your animals urinate and deficate, all over the rugs and furniture. Food rotting in the refrigerator. Your OWN BROTHER told us to call the state on YOU! YOUR BROTHER!
We were forced to go to a judge, have your thrown out, and call Child Protective Services a 2nd time! Alfonso suggested your mom “didn’t have the energy” to deal with it. Guess the Paris birthday trip was just too draining, sorry for the inconvenience.
We asked ALFONSO for help. He said he would talk to his parents. and get back to us. He was shut down, never to be heard from. He fell in line, just like his “father”.
ALFONSO why are you asking the victims family for help when your WIFE and MOTHER are/were MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS. The CALL is coming from INSIDE YOUR HOUSE and you’re playing dumb? WHO ARE YOU AFRAID OF?
WE HAD TO CALL Child Protective Services – you did NOTHING to protect the twins as they struggled in filth.
No more games. No more lies. Live with your decisions, as well as your guilt. ALL OF YOU. This was a vicious act of domestic violence and child neglect, and nothing is going to change that, or hide your families failure to step up and protect the children.
Provide the policy number. No more weaponizing the courts. Remove all our photos of our family members on social media, take down all the fundraisers, and every last goddamn reference to that boy as your son or grandson. You dont get to pretend anymore. We want nothing to do with ANY of you – stop playing the victim and take goddamn responsibility for once in your miserable life.
Provide the following within 7 days of receipt of this letter:
- The name of all insurance carriers (homeowner’s liability, umbrella, and any other applicable policies)
- Policy numbers
- Contact information for each carrier
- Any workers’ compensation coverage applicable to work performed at the property
Your refusal to provide this information to date is noted.
If this information is not provided within the stated timeframe, we will proceed with filing a claim in the Superior Court of New Jersey without further notice. Once litigation is initiated, insurance disclosure will be compelled through formal discovery, and all available legal remedies will be pursued.
